Dear Fellow Journalers,
In preparing a memory journal at first glance it seems like an impossible task but my advice is to take it in pieces. You could start with your childhood and answer the following questions (prompts):
- What was your favorite toy?
- Did you ever get lost? Who found you?
- As a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?
- What was your favorite subject in school?
- Did you have a favorite teacher?
- Do you remember any instances that made you extremely happy or scared?
- What was you favorite tv show?
- What books did you read over and over again?
If you want to delve into your parents’ lives, begin by finding old photos and documents such as birth certificates, old report cards, letters, pictures. Often letters can be the door to your understanding of how and why your parents acted and thought. Some possible questions to ponder: did you have family traditions? What did you do on Sundays? Write down 3 of your father’s favorite movies, songs, sports, time of year, meals. Was there anything noteworthy of your mother’s upbringing – for instance, she grew up in the Depression, or worked in a factory during WWII.
You could create lists of: places you have traveled to, the people you admire, your favorite movies, your favorite books (and why) your goals.
There are many, many prompts available for you to choose from so as I’ve stated before, take the journey of remembrance slowly, savoring each moment and tell it to your family and friends so they can share your legacy.
‘Til then,
~Sallie
P.S. Books I have read about discovering family through letters include “Against Wind and Tide” by Anne Morrow Lindbergh
“The Diary” by Eileen Goudge
“One Lavender Ribbon” by Heather Burch
Mar 29, 2017 @ 05:01:32
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Mar 30, 2017 @ 22:46:49
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